[O.W.W.L. Success Tip] Lifting the weight of “Should’s” and “Have To’s”

Last year I made a decision to stay at home for the holidays instead of traveling to see in-laws, as we usually do. I chose to lay aside guilt, potential disapproval, and potential judgment.

O.W.W.L. Success Tip: Avoiding guilt and disapproval doesn’t help anyone, even you.

I have always been a people pleaser, wanting to help others and putting their best interests ahead of mine. The problem with this pattern is that I don’t get my own needs and wants met, which can cause fatigue, burnout, resentment, and self-pity. Not an empowered way to live!

In addition, guilt and fear of judgment doesn’t help anyone else either. AND it doesn’t make people like you any better than they did before.

I had worked very hard to create a six-figure business, expanding my programs, hiring new team, and increasing my clientele. To create our next year goals and strategies in a powerful way, I needed some down time. Traveling, living out of a suitcase, and relative interaction would not have given me the clarity and peace required. This was not a spontaneous choice. There will be consequences. But it was an empowered choice.

How will you stay in clarity and peace during the hectic holiday time? To what will you say no so that you can say yes to what really counts?

Believing in your powerful choices,

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